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Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 11:39:45 AM

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First let me clarify that by "here" I refer to the path of D/s and bdsm!

I have been on the path for more decades than I care to comment on and certainly longer than many newcomers have been on this earth. While I have taken Emeritus status I still come on daily to keep an eye on the path as a whole, and thus the point of this post.

Over the last 10 years the composition of path walkers has changed so dramatically, that when compared to yesteryear places like CollarMe have become little more than kinky dating sites; albiet with things like posting abilities. The number of teens coming onto CM is astounding to me. All claiming to be submissive etc. So my question or query is this if you have the intestinal fortitude to address it...............Why do you walk the path?

CP

RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 11:47:49 AM

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i have always known i am a submissive. does that count?

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 11:54:52 AM

Toppingfrmbottom

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Because I am kinky and kink and bdsm sexually fulfill me, and makes me happy.

I find conventional relationships extremely boring, dull and quite lacking.

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince
Why do you walk the path?

CP

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 11:56:12 AM

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Because this is the path most suited for my feet. And the rest of me!

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 11:59:08 AM

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I heard there were free cookies......there aren't?

< Message edited by laurell3 -- 7/14/2010 12:01:38 PM >

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:00:33 PM

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I don't see it as a path.

I am simply a submissive personality to a dominant man because I am attracted to dominant men who are compatible with me on other levels.

I was "here" to meet a dominant personality who wanted the same things I wanted in life. I think I've accomplished that.

It's as simple as that.

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:08:34 PM

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mikey,

nope it does not as it is way to generic!

CP

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:10:33 PM

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quote:

Because I am kinky and kink and bdsm sexually fulfill me, and makes me happy.

I find conventional relationships extremely boring, dull and quite lacking.

Topping,

Well that is straightforward enough but that mbegs the question ......what is "kink" to you?

CP

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:10:47 PM

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mikey,

nope it does not as it is way to generic!

CP

would you believe i heard there were chocolates along the path somewhere? just having a hell of a time finding them...LOL

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:11:23 PM

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I was drawn to bondage as a child. Experimented a few times over the years.

It wasn't until I was 30 I gave up on vanilla relationships to embark solely on wiitwd.

Jeff

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:14:17 PM

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Why am I here? I am on Collarme because:

a: I have been into BDSM since age 16
b: I have fun on the message boards
c: I like to meet like minded people
d: I like to hear differing opinions and often learn something new, and I think I have things to offer through my experiences
e. I don't feel like this is a "path"; it is just another facet of me, as a complete, complex and interesting human being.

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:14:44 PM

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quote:

Because this is the path most suited for my feet. And the rest of me!

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camille,

Now I know your more capable of explaining better than that............sounds like your going out to get the paper.

CP

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:16:17 PM

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quote:

heard there were free cookies......there aren't?

laurell3

groans!

CP

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:19:31 PM

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littlewonder,

path, direction, preference............ of little importance as to what we call it........now does it?

You prefer dominant males..but the thrust iof the question was why.

CP

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:21:13 PM

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quote:

would you believe i heard there were chocolates along the path somewhere? just having a hell of a time finding them...LOL

well happy search!

CP

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:21:49 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

Why do you walk the path?

CP

I was not aware that this was a "path."

As to why am I here: Well frankly having someone consent to me being sadistic to them greatly reduces my chances at incarceration in jail or a mental institution.

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:24:18 PM

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quote:

I was drawn to bondage as a child. Experimented a few times over the years.

It wasn't until I was 30 I gave up on vanilla relationships to embark solely on wiitwd.

Jeff

jeff,

Thanks for your input and the fact that your here is a point in truth; but what draws you to bondage?

CP

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:28:29 PM

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quote:

Why am I here? I am on Collarme because:

a: I have been into BDSM since age 16
b: I have fun on the message boards
c: I like to meet like minded people
d: I like to hear differing opinions and often learn something new, and I think I have things to offer through my experiences
e. I don't feel like this is a "path"; it is just another facet of me, as a complete, complex and interesting human being.

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sexyred,

Another misread................. why are you into bondage...whether at 16 or now?

CP

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:32:19 PM

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quote:

I was not aware that this was a "path."

As to why am I here: Well frankly having someone consent to me being sadistic to them greatly reduces my chances at incarceration in jail or a mental institution.

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Aylee,

Ok does lifestyle ring your bell better?
So now we know your a sadist and why your on the path errrrrrrrrrr whatever!

Thanks for your input.

CP

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RE: Why are you here? - 7/14/2010 12:33:36 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

quote:

Why am I here? I am on Collarme because:

a: I have been into BDSM since age 16
b: I have fun on the message boards
c: I like to meet like minded people
d: I like to hear differing opinions and often learn something new, and I think I have things to offer through my experiences
e. I don't feel like this is a "path"; it is just another facet of me, as a complete, complex and interesting human being.

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sexyred,

Another misread................. why are you into bondage...whether at 16 or now?

CP

CP, I am not just into bondage. Let me try and flesh this out for you....

I am one of those people who was aware of certain feelings/fantasies even as a child. They usually involved some type of bondage, control, spanking, etc. Keep in mind, a child does not understand that these feelings are in any way sexual.

As a precocious reader, I learned during puberty that these "feelings" I had were sexual in nature. So, I pursued these activities starting at age 16 because they felt good.

I am into what I am into, whatever it is on my personal BDSM spectrum simply because it turns me on more than anything else.

For me it is a purely, animalistic, primal sexual urge that is being fulfilled when I engage in these activities. I do not engage in this due to abuse, low self esteem, trying to "find" myself or to please anyone but myself. I am not into this because of "service" simply because in my relationships, we serve each other conceptually.

Does any of this make sense?

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