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slvemike4u -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 7:31:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: slvemike4u Dayuum.Are you trying to tell me all my efforts to appear intelligent and complicated have actually been at crosspuposes to what I wanted to achieve, Thats just so fucked up [:D] We are split by the gulf of our mutual sub-ness This is true...but it does not ,in any way shape or form,diminish my appreciation for your contributions on these pages. That and the fact that I was referring to the larger picture...in other words ...in the future I will try to appear more simple minded to any and all Dommes I might run across.

juliaoceania -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 7:31:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 nah I can picture you with a whip in hand julia....it's certainly a hot visual...if nothing else! I couldn't even spank my own kid.... I am just lucky he didn't run all over me more than he did...

juliaoceania -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 7:33:38 PM)
quote: This is true...but it does not ,in any way shape or form,diminish my appreciation for your contributions on these pages. That and the fact that I was referring to the larger picture...in other words ...in the future I will try to appear more simple minded to any and all Dommes I might run across. Thank you, Mike, that is soooo sweet. And the Uncarved block is a really beautiful thing... it has all the potential of what it can be without all the damage of what has been done to it (or something like that)

slvemike4u -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 7:36:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 quote: ORIGINAL: slvemike4u quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 quote: ORIGINAL: slvemike4u Did you miss the part where I said I would not object.....I just don't care to here you girls refer to us guys as if we are simple minded children where I can see it. I'm not stupid....I know you girls do this shit.....just have the decency to do so amongst yourselves.[:D] If you wouldn't mind, then it must be true and thus NOT condescending. See my point now? Now who is being simple minded.....It's the blow job I wouldn't object to...the condescension I can do without,[:D] You are a pissy little thing aren't you? If you don't get my point, well...you are simple minded, I'm sorry. Guess you missed the laughing icon....if I must put a point on it ...I was simply kidding. Nothing pissy at all...I am a rather good natured and happy sort of feelow who...as I hope this post demonstrates...is very slow to take offense..and even slower to anger. Sorry if you took it all wrong.

laurell3 -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 7:37:49 PM)
gotcha! thanks for explaining! my apologies then

laurell3 -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 7:39:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 nah I can picture you with a whip in hand julia....it's certainly a hot visual...if nothing else! I couldn't even spank my own kid.... I am just lucky he didn't run all over me more than he did... shhh don't ruin my fantasy...

juliaoceania -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 7:40:44 PM)
tries on latex corset with riding crop and poses for Laurell, as long as I do not have to use it[:D]

slvemike4u -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 7:41:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 gotcha! thanks for explaining! my apologies then No problem at all [:)]

laurell3 -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 7:43:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania tries on latex corset with riding crop and poses for Laurell, as long as I do not have to use it[:D] PICTURE NOW!!!

slvemike4u -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 7:59:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 nah I can picture you with a whip in hand julia....it's certainly a hot visual...if nothing else! I couldn't even spank my own kid.... I am just lucky he didn't run all over me more than he did... What does spanking a child have to do with flogging a sub/slave type?

juliaoceania -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 8:00:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slvemike4u quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 nah I can picture you with a whip in hand julia....it's certainly a hot visual...if nothing else! I couldn't even spank my own kid.... I am just lucky he didn't run all over me more than he did... What does spanking a child have to do with flogging a sub/slave type? It is called a joke....

TheHeretic -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 8:01:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: It doesn't really seem that you can live with us anyway, Julia What is this in reference to, Rich, please, do tell... I wanna read it in a more direct way instead of the passive aggressive shit you are so fond of dropping around like bad smelling rat pellets Uh, that would be a reference to this, Julia. quote: I moved too, but I made lemonade out of lemons.... I am better off today than when I met him, and although he was a catalyst the credit for that is all mine The same thread is digging too far back for you?

DarlingSavage -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 8:01:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania I was curious about something, and I thought I would ask you all what you think about it...It is about investment into a new relationship with someone that you are excited about. At the very beginning when you first begin to realize that you are going to take the plunge and involve yourself with someone new, how do you show you want to make that investment? I am wondering how male and female answers will differ.... I'm really curious about this, too. I posted a serious answer and I like kidding around just as much as anyone, but this is kind of an important topic to me, so I would really like to hear some serious, albeit light-hearted and/or humorous responses, but responses that address the topic, please. I know I'm not a mod, but I'm kind of acting like one now, I guess, so I apologize for that, but I'd really like to see something on topic over here. Please? Thank you.

juliaoceania -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 8:05:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheHeretic quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: It doesn't really seem that you can live with us anyway, Julia What is this in reference to, Rich, please, do tell... I wanna read it in a more direct way instead of the passive aggressive shit you are so fond of dropping around like bad smelling rat pellets Uh, that would be a reference to this, Julia. quote: I moved too, but I made lemonade out of lemons.... I am better off today than when I met him, and although he was a catalyst the credit for that is all mine The same thread is digging too far back for you? So you were basically snarking on me for my past relationship, which is fairly tacky. I have never once spoken poorly of Sinergy on this board. I have often spoken warmly about him. You have on more than one occasion brought him up to me, as if to rub in the fact we are no longer together.... Now, if that is the person you want to be, by all means be my guest. I had a low opinion of you before, so nothing here has changed

juliaoceania -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 8:10:16 PM)
quote: I've done that so much and now, I'm scared to death and don't know what I'm supposed to do anymore. Sometimes. I think that now, I've got a better handle on things. I think I've learned to relax, I hope, but then again, I haven't met another one that tripped my trigger so hard that I felt breathless and speechless and tongue tied and everything else and I sure do wish I would! Cause I want that man that makes me feel like THAT! I thought I mentioned earlier in the thread about the book The Rules, and I had this post in mind when I mentioned it... are there different rules for how women act when they are crazy about someone then the ones that men follow?

TheHeretic -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 8:10:42 PM)
You are just way too damn sensitive sometimes, Julia, but lets head back to the topic as requested. What do you think of my "spend the night" symbolic act, to let a woman know a relationship is growing?

slvemike4u -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 8:12:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: slvemike4u quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 nah I can picture you with a whip in hand julia....it's certainly a hot visual...if nothing else! I couldn't even spank my own kid.... I am just lucky he didn't run all over me more than he did... What does spanking a child have to do with flogging a sub/slave type? It is called a joke.... I knew that....in hindsight though I it would appear I should hhave made my responce more overtly funny. What the hell...sometimes you get the "b" material.[:D]

juliaoceania -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 8:14:17 PM)
quote: What do you think of my "spend the night" symbolic act, to let a woman know a relationship is growing? Hmmmmm, I didn't know this was an indication of that... so lets say a guy invites a woman to spend the weekend with him at his home, this is an indication he really is digging her? Which this is what I wanted by this thread, so thanks for the response.... I thought you were being tongue in cheek

juliaoceania -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 8:16:09 PM)
quote: I knew that....in hindsight though I it would appear I should hhave made my responce more overtly funny. What the hell...sometimes you get the "b" material. LOL.... this is what I am talking about, both laurell and I have proven it.... women think differently than men[:D]

KatyLied -> RE: Investment in Relationships (7/23/2010 8:17:41 PM)
Sometimes it simply means he wants to get some, sometimes it means more. I do not read into physical acts, I am more interested in what a person says and the context. When you start thinking that physical acts mean something, you can get into trouble.....but bj's ar still nice!

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