EbonyFtshGoddess
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Joined: 1/1/2006 From: Hollywood Hills, CA Status: offline
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i entirely agree with you on everything openminded.. my only disagreement is this: i dont view house cleaning, or chores, providing legal aid if he's a lawyer.. or web skill if he knows flash. (ie.. providing services in fields they are good in but would normally charge someone for) as a tribute. nope, to me that isnt a tribute... that's EXPECTED. i have a slave that is a personal chef to someone, when i'm too tired to cook (which is rare).. and i want food.. i call him and he comes over to make me a nice gourmet meal .. often with 5 courses. is that a tribute? no.. that's his duty as a servant. cash tribute is DEFINITELY a no brainer... not to be a bitch, many males whom approach we Dominas.. have no brains. i view useful tributes as things they KNOW we need. when my norwegian slave comes here every 2 months.. he will ask me what toys do i want him to get for the visit because we do something new each time. the gifts are merely an expression of his KNOWLEDGE that paddles, floggers, violet wands, rubber hoods and vacbeds don't grow on trees.. ok so rubber grows on trees but it doesnt come off the tree totally made. he will spend $800 - $1000 on new toys.. i don't DEMAND it.. but it's a tribute. i dont tell him.. ok, you come here, stay in my home and i train you for a week before you continue your travel, BUT you gotta give me XYZ amount of money. no- he knows that my time is valuable, it could be spent training another slave AND we need things to play with. i view that as a tribute. if i need $500 because my car craps out on me yes, i feel it is a slave's duty to alleviate any worry i have so that INCLUDES financial sometimes. if he is in a position to assist REGARDLESS of the area... be it financial, time mowing the lawn etc.. then that's expected.. at least by me and i have no complainers. i have my longest standing slaves for over 4 years. and they're still here. if they felt used or hated our arrangement... they'd be gone by now. like you said "In fact, the giving of tribute or gift that actually required effort may be seen of greater importance to a Mistress." truer words have never been spoken. we need our lawns mowed, we need our kitchens cleaned, we ALL need financial assistance at times, we need this or that. and we EXPECT that- i dont view it as a tribute.. just part of slavely duties. slaves are here to alleviate worries and make life easier for the Woman they put on that pedestal. however, with that being said... i'm talking about SLAVES and not submissives. i have a few subs.. most of my males are slaves however. i expect a LOT more from my slaves than i do a mere submissive i toy with when i'm bored or when i want local errands ran. but someone demanding anything before they even OWN you.. something is just wrong about that. *typo edit*
< Message edited by EbonyFtshGoddess -- 4/21/2006 9:57:24 AM >
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