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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 5:42:53 PM   
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If I like a woman, it'll be because of all of those things, not just because she can wear high heels. I have a deep, wide and rich understanding of the ways in which I can be a dick, and I just assume that a wise woman will know similar about herself. Real angels, and real demons, are rare amongst women, no matter what they might think. In my experience.


This is what I was talking about early, about being self-aware.
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I think the real problem is that a few women would prefer me to like them for the reasons that they *want* me to like them. That's only going to be less the case as I get older. 'Cest la vie. I don't doubt it's true the other way round, too.

When I was younger, in my early 20s, I dated a guy who told me that what really attracted me to him was a part of me that I was less fond of. I got so angry with him, that I almost broke up with him. He, of course, was shocked. It took a long conversation and some deep reflection about the whole situation for me to come to terms with the fact that he didn't like me for the reasons I wanted him to like me.

So I get this. Luckily, I learned that lesson much younger and have learned that it doesn't matter why a man that I like likes me. It only matters that he does.

Edited to add: you see this often with men that have a lot of money. I once dated a man that came from a very well to do family and he had all the priveledges and toys a man could want. But when I met him, I didn't know most of this and honestly, when I found out, I didn't care much about it. He never believed that I liked him for him and not for his money. I think he realises this many, many years later when it's way too late.


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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 5:47:29 PM   
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i notice that you haven't answered my fucking question yet have you?

let me repeat it for you: what exactly do you mean when you think "cor blimey, she's a bitch!"?

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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 5:49:03 PM   
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i notice that you haven't answered my fucking question yet have you?

let me repeat it for you: what exactly do you mean when you think "cor blimey, she's a bitch!"?

You just might be demonstrating it ;-)

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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 5:54:34 PM   
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oh no, we're not bitchy enough, remember, particularly me - i am so un-bitchy i am fucking feeble.

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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 5:55:05 PM   
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i notice that you haven't answered my fucking question yet have you?

let me repeat it for you: what exactly do you mean when you think "cor blimey, she's a bitch!"?


I haven't answered it because I can't relate to it. It's not a line that would enter my head. You'll need to rephrase the question. What are you trying to ask?


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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:00:01 PM   
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oh no, we're not bitchy enough, remember, particularly me - i am so un-bitchy i am fucking feeble.


Only because you've stopped swearing - well on the boards anyway. Clearly you've lost a step.

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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:00:12 PM   
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what does the word bitch mean to you? what do you mean by it when you use it?

and don't give me any of that "i never use it" line of crap either.

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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:07:02 PM   
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oh no, we're not bitchy enough, remember, particularly me - i am so un-bitchy i am fucking feeble.


That's because, deep down, you know you are a marshmallow, a puddle of squishy softness (to quote Zeph), who desperately needs validation.
 
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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:08:03 PM   
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That's because, deep down, you know you are a marshmallow, a puddle of squishy softness (to quote Zeph), who desperately needs validation


Hey that's not true...I never said she needs validation.

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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:09:03 PM   
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Do you consider yourself a Bitch?

  • If yes, what does being a Bitch mean to you? Why do you like it?
  • If no, how does it feel when dominant women either refer to themselves or are referred to as Bitches?




I've never considered myself a bitch, and I don't think I've ever given anyone reason to think
of me in such a way. I find the term an insult, and to me it defines someone who behaves in
an aggressive manner in order to garner someones respect.

If someone chooses to call themselves such, who am I to convince them otherwise?



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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:10:10 PM   
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No, no...the only part that's quoted is "puddle of squishy goo".  The rest is all mine.

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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:11:35 PM   
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Only because you've stopped swearing - well on the boards anyway. Clearly you've lost a step.


Blimey. If Hannah stopped swearing, I might be able to believe in her bitchy credentials a bit more.

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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:13:05 PM   
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No, no...the only part that's quoted is "puddle of squishy goo".  The rest is all mine.


Damn woman you trying to get me killed? Hannah has her man-hating rep to uphold, you quoting me as describing her as a puddle of squishy goo could get me killed.


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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:14:25 PM   
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Only because you've stopped swearing - well on the boards anyway. Clearly you've lost a step.


Blimey. If Hannah stopped swearing, I might be able to believe in her bitchy credentials a bit more.


NOW you listen to me? I was being sarcastic.


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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:15:35 PM   
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Remember kids, this is what happens when you post on the boards.  Your words are out there for everyone to see FOREVAH!

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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:16:36 PM   
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what does the word bitch mean to you? what do you mean by it when you use it?

and don't give me any of that "i never use it" line of crap either.


Nup. It doesn't work for me. As VC said earlier, it either means something quite impressive, or something bad, or - in general - nothing coherent at all. (To paraphrase her.)

But, for what it's worth, and in my view: yes, you really do swear too much for me to believe that you're the real-deal-bitchy, Hannah.

Sorry, but there it is . . . .

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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:16:39 PM   
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Remember kids, this is what happens when you post on the boards.  Your words are out there for everyone to see FOREVAH!


Bitch!

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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:20:48 PM   
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Remember kids, this is what happens when you post on the boards.  Your words are out there for everyone to see FOREVAH!


Bitch!


Damn straight! 

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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:30:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Do you consider yourself a Bitch?

  • If yes, what does being a Bitch mean to you? Why do you like it?
  • If no, how does it feel when dominant women either refer to themselves or are referred to as Bitches?




I've never considered myself a bitch, and I don't think I've ever given anyone reason to think
of me in such a way. I find the term an insult, and to me it defines someone who behaves in
an aggressive manner in order to garner someones respect.



I think I'll forever be in two minds about gentle women versus hard women . . . but I know I'll always think you're a delight, Poise . . . .


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RE: Do you consider yourself a Bitch? - 8/21/2011 6:41:16 PM   
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As VC said earlier, it either means something quite impressive, or something bad, or - in general - nothing coherent at all.
i asked what it meant to you, not her. but fuck it, ok vc still thinks for you, fine.

so it doesn't mean a fucking thing to you. well in that case how the fuck can you say somebody is or isn't a bitch, or is too bitchy or not bitchy enough? your just blowing smoke out your ass, pretty much what i expected from you these days, you've gone from an interesting guy to a passive-aggressive little bitch.

you should stop hanging around with david and kevin, they're rubbing off on you.

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