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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:49:50 AM

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Ok, alright!!!!
I confess!!

I KNEW I would get the comments I got, and I also KNEW that by saying what I said in my op, that I would get the heat I got for it. It comes as no surprise. I was over the top in my critique and observation. I generalized on purpose. But I DID have a tiny point in there.

The funniest part about the whole thing, is that people have just ripped into me, personally. They have even taken shots at my fiance, who has not said a word in this.

And guess what? The vicious responses are doing EXACTLY what they are accusing ME of doing in my op. And they are too blind to see it.
It's political correctness gone nuts.

So, I have no problems with obese people. I have no problem with ugly people, as I am an ugly man myself. ;) And I DEFINITELY do not have a problem with old people, as I am an old man myself.

I wish all of you guys the best, and hope that I've made some people think a little differently than they have become accustomed to thinking.

The fighting retreat. Lovely.

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:50:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383

Ok, alright!!!!
I confess!!

I KNEW I would get the comments I got, and I also KNEW that by saying what I said in my op, that I would get the heat I got for it. It comes as no surprise. I was over the top in my critique and observation. I generalized on purpose. But I DID have a tiny point in there.

The funniest part about the whole thing, is that people have just ripped into me, personally. They have even taken shots at my fiance, who has not said a word in this.

And guess what? The vicious responses are doing EXACTLY what they are accusing ME of doing in my op. And they are too blind to see it.
It's political correctness gone nuts.

So, I have no problems with obese people. I have no problem with ugly people, as I am an ugly man myself. ;) And I DEFINITELY do not have a problem with old people, as I am an old man myself.

I wish all of you guys the best, and hope that I've made some people think a little differently than they have become accustomed to thinking.

Back pedaling at it's finest.

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:50:58 AM

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Hey, I get frustrated.
I am human.

So what you're saying is that unpleasant online forum posting alone causes you to to be immature and lack control?

Keep posting, please. Your words are SURE to win you even more of those sub/slaves you seek. Everyone's looking for easily-frustrated dominants.

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:51:22 AM

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I caught hell about the cat puke and the dog statement from my fiance! I admit, that was too much. I have apologized for that. But I get angry when I see people who don't try. And I've seen A LOT of that.
Hey, I get frustrated.
I am human.

But I am NOT shallow.

Listen, the peacocks plumage is beautiful for a reason.....right? And nobody gets pissed at the peacock.

The only way you could know if someone had given up on them self is to get to know them. You have no idea what someone is doing or not doing from looks alone. Be they fat or thin, short or tall, blue or purple.

So, perhaps let your better half proof what you plan to post. Whether you intended it or not, you sounded like a jackass, and she is on the arm of that jackass, making her one by association.

Good luck.

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:51:37 AM

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You are hardly a victim here, OP.
Remember the back peddling I predicted?

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:52:05 AM

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Let the backpedal begin.

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:52:11 AM

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You are hardly a victim here, OP.
Remember the back peddling I predicted?

Forica, want to share any lotto numbers, while you are making predictions?

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:52:37 AM

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Somehow this got turned into being about obese.

I said that people don't fix their hair, wear makeup, etc...

People who don't TRY.

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:53:27 AM

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I love that 5 of us just posted essentially the same thing at the same time..lol.

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:53:47 AM

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OP >>> Deer Caught in Head Lights

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:54:11 AM

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There was a lot about how obese people don't try. Unless you forgot that, darlin.

Also, you have reminded me why I want to, desperately, leave Central Florida.

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Somehow this got turned into being about obese.

I said that people don't fix their hair, wear makeup, etc...

People who don't TRY.

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:54:14 AM

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LOL
No back pedal!!

I stand by what I said.

It's funny, but the people who agree with me send me email. Those who don't, post on here.

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:54:33 AM

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What gets me Derek is that you say you are a fairly smart guy but if that's the case then why did you even think this let alone post it. FFS it's the longest suicide in history of the scene. Think man just fucking think, just be selfish for one second. How would your local scene respond if they read this?

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:54:49 AM

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Don't worry, we remember you judge the entire package, not just size.

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Somehow this got turned into being about obese.

I said that people don't fix their hair, wear makeup, etc...

People who don't TRY.

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:55:21 AM

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It's funny, but the people who agree with me send me email. Those who don't, post on here.

Shocking! The people who agree with you are gutless bastards. I am soooo surprised.

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:56:29 AM

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Now you stand by your words? You just said you apologized, remember?
Oh, and it's a common tactic for the attacked to pull out the "50 people just agreed with me! really! you just can't see them!"
I don't give a flying fuck who PM'd you sharing your narrow minded view.

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I stand by what I said.

It's funny, but the people who agree with me send me email. Those who don't, post on here.

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:56:35 AM

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Of course, she agrees with me

That's not too difficult when you both appear to be sharing the same brain cell, is it?

Hasn't it ever occurred to you that there are people out there who are more physically attractive than you, as well as having brains and personality?

Therefore we could turn the question right round and ask - why would anyone want to serve a dominant who doesn't take care of stuff like discretion, personal courtesy, manners, or consideration for other people?

Who would want to serve a dominant who appears not to think, who appears to be totally self-centred, and who appears to have a personality as colourful as grits?

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:57:55 AM

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Oh, his local scene is finding out. He and I are only 100 miles or so a apart. I know people who travel ALL OVER CENTRAL FLORIDA for BDSM things

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What gets me Derek is that you say you are a fairly smart guy but if that's the case then why did you even think this let alone post it. FFS it's the longest suicide in history of the scene. Think man just fucking think, just be selfish for one second. How would your local scene respond if they read this?

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 7:58:01 AM

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Oh, and you were hurt that people "judged" your fiance, when "she didn't even say anything"?
How's it feel?

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RE: BDSM out of necessity? - 1/15/2012 8:02:38 AM

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How do you know any of these people have given up on themselves? Did you spend time with any of them to see what kind of things they might be working on? Did you ask any of them if they have any medical conditions that might have led to their obesity? Did you ask them if there was a reason they don't wear make up? You *assumed* that these people have given up. With a closed mind, there is no way in hell you could ever know anything about these people.

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