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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 7/16/2013 9:34:20 PM

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... the only fin dommes i've known who make it understand this mindset really well and tend to be ridiculously smart...

There ya go, K.

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 7/16/2013 9:44:01 PM

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... the only fin dommes i've known who make it understand this mindset really well and tend to be ridiculously smart...

There ya go, K.

I now love this person!

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 7/27/2013 4:03:25 AM

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I TOTALLY agree with this

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It's spam. You guys act like it's a legitimate kink. When is the last time anyone who actually enjoyed sending money and gifts to "Findoms" ever showed themselves and stood up for the kink?

You are so remarkably clueless it's hard to know where to begin. I've dated a findomme. She once asked me, "RM1, would it be ok if we got a cuckold? Someone who would pay for all our dates, and then jack off when I told him about them?"

A platonic friend of mine tried findomme for a while and didn't like it. A big part of why she stopped was an experience she called me one night about, almost panicked, because she wasn't sure what to do. A guy had told her he was being evicted because he sent her his rent money. She blocked him. He made a new email address and sent her money again. She refused the payment and blocked him again. He did this a few more times, and she ended up calling me.

You really need to gain some experience in the world of kink. Your ignorance shows. Paired with your arrogance, you're not very attractive right now.

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 7/27/2013 6:21:24 AM

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i know what it means but i can't help it. Everytome i see this term i picture a Domme if a fin like a fish. Well i always did have a warped swnse of humor.

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 7/27/2013 8:06:02 AM

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 7/28/2013 6:34:37 AM

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financial dommes are not my think but if I am ever lucky enough to find a D/s relationship I would expect to be put under financial control, but idea of just handing out money to a complete stranger is ridiculous, and I would bet that 90% of subbies that get involved here life to regret it

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 7/28/2013 1:17:08 PM

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Like it or not FinDoms have been around for a long time. They are no different than Sadists, Pro Doms or any other form of kink or fetish.

For me it's all a matter of how they are fulfilling the needs of a group of people. And contrary to popular belief they do fulfill that need. Just the same as Pro Doms do as well. It's fine to say your kink is not my kink but there's also a way to do so with respect and tact towards other posters and people that happen to have that fetish.

Please keep in mind when you are posting an opinion that as a lifestyle we are already judged harshly by society as a whole. So why must we be so harsh in our judgement of each other as well? Unless it is something that is dangerous, illegal or in some way has a negative impact on us we don't have the right to judge based simply on "it's not my kink so i just hate it".

i am too much of an alpha slave (chuckle) to allow myself to be with a Fin Dom... oh and by the way i know many Fin Doms that have jobs, lives, kids and support themselves quite well and don't need to rely on the finances of others to make a living. They choose to be a Fin Dom to fulfill the kink or fetish of those out there that are interested in it. Thanks for reading and have a great day :)

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 7/28/2013 1:35:16 PM

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Gary I wasn't referring to you when I said I was tired of hearing about it. I usually fast reply and don't say tat I'm fast replying. Sorry for the confusion.

But to answer the OPs question, I would assume the subs love it, otherwise I don't think I'd have the same subs I've been having for a while. Or so many countless others that want it.

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 8/1/2013 3:04:25 AM

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What does a findomme mean?

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 8/1/2013 4:09:57 AM

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Financial dominant.

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 8/1/2013 8:46:37 AM

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I have no problem with them. I think a lot of the uproar against them is sexism and male entitlement posing as self-righteousness. Nobody has the right to a Domme, nobody has the right to be dominated. So long as all the parties involved are consenting, then it shouldn't be anybody else's business.

Does this mean that all Financial Dom/mes are paragons of virtue who deserve my admiration and respect? Hell no - you'd never catch me paying for it, but if other people want to then that's up to them.

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 8/1/2013 1:16:21 PM

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Well stated

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 8/1/2013 5:43:25 PM

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Most domme's I have talked to on here elect themselves as "findommes' " . My opinion on it is if the only enjoyment you get out of it is making money, why not get a real job?
Why should I "pay" someone to get the enjoyment when there are literally thousands out there willing to learn and enjoy it for free. It shouldn't be all about the dollar signs, If
it's something that is in you, part of what you are, you shouldn't have a need to get paid. Unless of course, that is something the sub WANTS to do for you freely.

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 8/1/2013 6:43:32 PM

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Unless of course, that is something the sub WANTS to do for you freely.

Trust me, it's only something that happens when the sub does WANT to do it.

Tribute seeker are left disappointed, there ain't hordes of guys in the world who will send money or gifts to a woman, just cause she said so on her profile, or in the first mail.

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 8/1/2013 11:13:26 PM

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Unless of course, that is something the sub WANTS to do for you freely.

Trust me, it's only something that happens when the sub does WANT to do it.

Tribute seeker are left disappointed, there ain't hordes of guys in the world who will send money or gifts to a woman, just cause she said so on her profile, or in the first mail.

Well that is a good thing. Can't stand money hungry people, always wanting something for nothing

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 8/2/2013 1:41:25 PM

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I don't try to define what is and is not a "legitimate" kink. I break ALL kinks down into two categories.

1. My kinks.

2. Not my kinks.

I'm not going to spend the rest of the day listing everything in Category 1. Category 2 breaks down into two sub-categories.

A. Those I'm willing to engage in if I have a partner who likes them.

B. Those I'm not willing to engage in.

Findom is a 2B to me. I don't much care how others categorize it.

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 8/2/2013 1:48:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

i know what it means but i can't help it. Everytome i see this term i picture a Domme if a fin like a fish. Well i always did have a warped swnse of humor.

Matt's ittleone

Hmm. Shark week starts on Sunday. Maybe that's why this subject is so popular.

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 8/2/2013 4:56:41 PM

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Most domme's I have talked to on here elect themselves as "findommes' " . My opinion on it is if the only enjoyment you get out of it is making money, why not get a real job?
Why should I "pay" someone to get the enjoyment when there are literally thousands out there willing to learn and enjoy it for free. It shouldn't be all about the dollar signs, If
it's something that is in you, part of what you are, you shouldn't have a need to get paid. Unless of course, that is something the sub WANTS to do for you freely.

They are not fin dommes. They are what we call "ducks". They don't deserve the tern fin Domme. An actual fin Domme is waaaaaay different than those"fuck you, pay me" chics. Somewhere down the line, they decided to self proclaim.

I disagree on the "if it's something that's a part of you,you should have a need to get paid". It is very much a part of me.however I don't "need" to get paid. I WANT to be paid. There is a huge difference there. I can say"no" to anyone, for any amount...AND HAVE!
People just have a different view of things. Ya know....tomato, tamaaato....potato, pataaato. Lol

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 8/6/2013 4:51:02 AM

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Frankly, I don't care for the notion of findomming or cuckolding, they both seem very dangerous and degrading (in a non enjoyable manner), but obviously that doesn't mean others think the same way.

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RE: What do subs think of FinDommes? - 8/6/2013 6:14:06 AM

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Totally fine with it. The demand is obviously there, so I see no problem with people who have the supply stepping in and fulfilling that need

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