Focus50
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Joined: 12/28/2004 From: Newcastle, Australia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl rofl ... just because you dont agree with the assessment of Kana doesnt make the rest of us on a bandwagon. I have the ability to have a snarky political discussion with someone (DS springs to mind quickly) and a nice conversation in mail. How about you? I didn't know DS even spoke "snark"! DarkSteven, yeah? I s'pose I've got K. Of course, he doesn't actually discuss anything.... Guess yours is bigger - THIS TIME. quote:
Omg... highly insulted... enraged... furious... awww... you are such a cutie! Note to self; the girl likes the scenic route.... quote:
It should have been being... I do that sometimes with my letters when I type... I type with 5 fingers... lol... the man laughs when he watches me. Did figger that by myself ("being"). "You type too fast" meets "I read too fast" - hadta double back when I read "benign bitch" (ie, wtf?) lol quote:
First, there is no need, thats what "hide" is for. If someone is that thin skinned that they cant take criticism, they should hide the offender or delete their account. Im not here to coddle anyone and I dont expect anyone to coddle me. Second, I dont like the immediate "victim" act either. When you start a thread, you open yoruself up to all sorts of criticisms from everyone. Its the nature of the beast. What I saw was someone getting butt hurt over being told to suck a cock. Had she been in her early 20's, I might could see it. At 38? come on! Third, I take huge exceptions at anyone being labeled a fake simply because of a single post. In other words, had she said that about you, my reaction would have been the same. I read the exchange and was hoping Ron would pipe up... lol And, fourth, she is now firmly indoctrinated into the world of CM. She wont be coddled here. She knows she is expected to own her words and her attitude. The idea is laughable that anyone would take Kana's post seriously. Overall, guess we're not gonna agree.... First, I'm not here to coddle or be coddled either. But I'll always make some allowances for the fresh meat. Lame as it sounds, seems like the right thing to do, IMO. <shrugs> Second, I don't regard age as being relevant to experience. Much like the used car, it's not so much how old it is as how many miles are on the clock. 18, 38 or 98 - as far as I know, the OP's been at CM for a month and she's not nearly the first to make *common* rookie mistakes like thinking D/s is held to a higher standard than her previous vanilla experiences. There is fuck-all new D/s topics to discuss but truckloads of newbies to discuss them. So yeah, I fire up when I see the experienced acting like stale burnouts when they jump all over them. Is it any harder for the regulars to 'X' out of the thread altogether rather than sharing their dismissive snarky contempt? Apparently, yes. You hate white knights and I hate mob mentality.... Skipping your third.... Fourth, yeah, indoctrinated alright. I remember sites like BDSM online. And bondage.com, too. First one's long dead and bondage was in its last throes last I looked. It's the new meat that keeps the heart beating continually, not a bunch of elitist burnouts pushing them away. I'm talking about an overall attitude here, not pointing a finger at anyone in this particular thread. quote:
I had the same indoctrination when I first came here. I made a joke, it was taken seriously, and I got land blasted. I could have tucked tail and ran. I am made of stronger stuff. I made my apologies and made amends with those I offended. Thats sorta what you do when entering a new group. Not sound the battle cry and beg for some white knight syndrome freedom fighter to ride in to the rescue. That actually does her a disservice by not allowing her to stand on her own two feet and sets her up for use and abuse by someone who pretends to be the hero in order to get her to swallow whatever bill of goods he expects her to believe. And, dammit, I had to edit twice. I didnt realize you couldnt read typonese or that my posts were now being graded for spelling mistakes. Dont expect that to continue. This is a one post deal. This looks suspiciously like advocating that if it worked out for you, then it must for everyone else. I said "looks".... :) This "land blasted" - typo or slang for "lambasted"? Sorry, couldn't resist. If I'm gonna be labelled a white knight, I may as well be the spelling cop, too.... ;) Not that "land blasted" is spelt wrong, dammit.... Grammar cop? Typonese cop, even? Focus.
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Never underestimate the persuasive power of stupid people in large groups. <unknown> Your food is for eating, not torturing. <my mum> (Errm, when I was a kid)
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