littlewonder
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ORIGINAL: SirLogansSub thank u to focus and to TNDommeK. as for kana u r exactly the proof to me that a lot of men get into Dom lifestyle just so they can be controlling, abusive, dicks to women. not for the pleasure or the pleasure of pleasing each others fantasies. I was warned of this when I got into the lifestyle, that many men have no idea what and art form BDSM is and what a great responsibility it is to care for their subs and to keep them safe emotionally as well as physically. The subs should be held in high regard for choosing the lifestyle not abused in a negative way or used to get to other women. Thank u kana for helping me realize that i will have to be extra careful if ever taking on another Dom that He knows what a real Dom is supposed to act like and not choose another like Him or you, women haters ETA That this is Kana Oh funk. I mean seriously? A grown ass woman all of thirty freaking eight and you need a group of strangers to tell you what's right for you? WTF is wrong with that picture? That's simply sad. So I took the posting with exactly the appropriate amount of earnestness. (And if there was any question about my intent, the smiley face at the end shoulda given it away) 50 shades of drama, much? For crying out loud-it's a relationship. Nothing more. Nothing less. Treat it as such and you'll be fine. This is BDSM. It ain't for the thin skinned and it certainly ain't for the whiners. If you walk away for your first interaction with nothing but some slightly hurt feelings, big freaking deal. Could have been a whole lot worse. Hopefully, you'll learn something. But don't come bitching about trite crap and expect a whole shit-ton of sympathy. especially here, where the boards are populated, in part, by sadists. Want my real advice? I'll tell you what an old man told me once a long time ago. Grow up. Show up. Shut up. take some control of your life and responsibility for your choices and actions. Meanwhile, back at the ranch, since I'm being earnest and all, I obviously need to work on my mastering skills. (I know this cuz a newbie told me so.) That is, if you folks think I can overcome my lack of caring and/or responsibility for her physical and emotional well being (Silly me, here I was thinking as a grown woman a slave should be responsible for her own mental flipping health) as well as misogynistic tendencies. Can you please, pray-tell, I beseech thee, steer me towards an appropriate mentor?
< Message edited by littlewonder -- 5/26/2013 5:59:44 PM >
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