GoddessManko
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Joined: 3/6/2013 From: Dante's Inferno Status: offline
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I try to think of it in terms of Female Supremacy. I believe in a way, women govern many things, their bodies, sexual encounters, being seen as the weaker and less capable sex, sexual objectification etc than many men do not have to deal with on a day to day basis, including systematic gender inequality. However alternatively there are expectations of Dominant men society has placed on them as well like being the HoH, provider, emotionally sound/controlled, stability and security, shouldering everything that may affect relationships, personal life or any of those things aforementioned. I think it is fair for a male sub to approach a lady for her strength, beauty and grace and see her as Supreme the same way it is very beautiful for a female sub to see Dominant Masculinity for his strength, sturdiness and capabilities. However, I believe harboring such very personal perceptions and beliefs should not lead to sexism, gender bashing etc. and there has to be some measure of sensitivity for those who are gender benders. It should be something personal which ties into your relationship in some way and I feel there is nothing wrong with declaring either gender as supreme from personal viewpoints and for that to be the catalyst into your love for F/m or M/f. Then the roles are better defined. There SHOULD BE anyway based on that premise, less of a fight or argument for personal roles within the D/s dynamic. However to ask a woman you have done ZERO, ZIP, NADA, ZILCH for if she knows her place, to who? You? Who the hell are you but a stranger on the internet? Spare me! You're not entitled to every woman on this planet to drop down and worship at your feet. I saw that on AlabamaPrincess's thread about that other male Dom. I would have thought he was joking and I think I would be frozen in shock for someone else to demand that from MY property. However, I hate pandering and some men declare their belief in Female Supremacy just for that. To pander. If a man declared such belief and had any requirements/ill will towards women (especially Dominant women) I would right away be dismissive of his claims. I am also dismissive of men who enjoy blowing smoke up my ass and presume their words haven't been spoken to me before and should right away start clapping like a baby seal.
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Happy consent is the name of the game. You are my perfect Mistress. - my collared. http://submissivemale.blogspot.com/ The Bird of Hermes is my name, eating my wings to make me tame.
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