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ORIGINAL: NookieNotes Oh yes. Men and women exaggerate themselves to look better to potential mate prospects. Men are statistically more likely to do this than women, but women do it as well. And the fact is that men like to SAY they are chased, and even like the thought of it, but when it happens, they freak out, in most cases. Because if they REALLY liked the person, they'd already be chasing. Honestly I rarely encounter women who do it. Sub men like SockySock though are a dime a dozen. I almost always hear how "awful", "frumpy" blah blah previous encounters have been. One even jokingly said the ladies had a "fishy smell". Yea, it went there. I kind of back away from anyone who has anything negative to say about other women in order to attract a potential mate. Oh! You haven't encountered the "he treated me like..." or, "I did everything for him..."? quote:
At the end of the day, many men are sort of psychological ninjas for their "male pride" sake, they kind of know what bait to lay to catch the type of fish they want and for their pride to remain in tact. Those cheap antics don't work with me. These are with the ones who think they are a catch though not all of them are that way but some definitely think they are a gift to domly women. And honestly, when he says the woman is the one doing the chasing I would question even that. Not even the FinDommes give off that vibe. They are pleasant to me but I do get a sense of "two-facedness". Oh yes. I see this everywhere. Like I said, though, I see this in women as well. It's from a different place, but in my experience, they do it just as much. Usually making themselves out to be the victim, the martyr... quote:
ORIGINAL: MathewIndio I believe that if a woman wants to find a significant other she is going to have to put in a lot of energy and effort. This includes going through her emails, instead of clicking them all and then deleting them (Deleted, Unread). Since you wrote, "shoveling through that nonsense" I assume you believe that all the emails you receive are from men you have no desire for. I'm saying that in the onslaught of emails you are receiving there are a few good men. Good men does not equal good matches/mates. I'm pretty sure that there have been good women interested in you that you did not want... So, your point is moot. quote:
I believe that a lot of women join personal sites in order to find a good man. The ones who find the good ones put in the energy and effort to do so. The ones who are complaining that "I can't find any good man" and they are getting 100's of emails are not putting in the energy and effort that is required. Women join personal sites for many reasons. ONE reason is to find the right man, not just a good man. My ex-BF is a good man. Not the ultimate man for me, but an amazing, wonderful, good man. It's not enough to just be good. They have to be a match for the woman that is looking for them. As stated, you do not know what 100s of emails are like until you receive them. You seem very locked in your own little experience bubble, unwilling to listen to those who have different experiences. So, for me, you might be a good man (I'm not saying one way or another, because I don't know you), but you would not be a good man for me, as your mind is far too inflexible for the life I lead. quote:
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1 My goodness? Sorry my language hurts you. You frustrated me because you are being dense. I always thought vulgar language was rude. You frustrate me because you seem to be putting words in my mouth that I never said. Communication is making sure that your message is clear. Your message as Red is reading it is coming across to most of us (the women who you are trying to convince) the same way. Perhaps the common denominator here is you. quote:
ORIGINAL: MathewIndio quote:
ORIGINAL: sexyred1 As for your replies to my post, you keep repeating yourself and you seem unable to discuss the issue intelligently. My issue is that women appear to have better opportunities on dating sites than men. However, you are bringing forth issues that I never brought forth. "Defining what a good man is" "Women approaching men" And we have told you clearly that your definition of "better opportunities" does not apply. And we are women. So, therefore, we get to decide what makes a "better opportunity" for us. Period. quote:
ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear APPEAR being the operative word. Appearances can be & ARE deceiving. Truth.
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