MistressTheaZ
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Joined: 7/17/2005 Status: offline
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(fast reply) While I'm not a Master, I did want to just stop in and echo that there is no protocol other than what mutual feelings, attraction and feeling comfortable dictate. As already stated, a first meet should establish mutual attraction, (or lack thereof), and give both people a sense of whether there is potential to continue toward a real-time relationship. While some may have entitlement issues, expecting instant submission, particularly including sexual acts, with someone akin to a virtual stranger is ridiculous. Never, ever feel anything should be 'expected' of you other than to be yourself, to be reasonably polite, and to be present at the time and place agreed upon. As mentioned, this is very similar to a 'first date'. To demand or expect anything else reeks of someone 'playing' at being a Dominant, and apparently unreasonable in their consideration for growing such an acquaintance into a genuine relationship. A sincere, mature and sensible man will respect you as a person, as a woman, and then as a submissive, and his behavior should courteously reflect this, IMO. Best, Thea
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