Leonidas
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I have to go with LuckyAlbatross here, as I often do. A lot depends on the nature of the relationship, and the intent of what's going on. The way that you described it as "having a session" would lead me to believe that it's some form of spanky-play. In that case, the object is for you both to have a good time, yes? When one of you stops having a good time, it's time to stop. Standard caveats about safe-words, lots of communication before the "session", and the gradual build up of trust over time so that limits can be ethically pressed apply here. In other situations, those pat answers might not apply. I disciplined my slave tonight. She was ready for me to stop paddling her ass long before I did, and was genuinely crying and begging for it to be over. If you had asked her at the time if I was going too far, I'm sure you'd have gotten something along the lines of "hell yes!!". She was being disciplined. Of course she's not having a good time. She has, however, submitted herself as my slave, and along with that submission comes submitting to my discipline as I see fit to apply it. Legally and theoretically, she could call the cops and show them her welted butt and I'd be charged with a crime, to be sure. Practically speaking, that isn't going to happen, because even though I may not have honored her pleading for me to stop what I was doing, I was within the bounds of the master/slave relation that we have to one another.
< Message edited by Leonidas -- 12/31/2006 6:29:41 PM >
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