kc692
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ORIGINAL: kc692 Not trying to be rude, but you are not even taking into account what your dominant may want. I do not want my slave around me all the time, HOWEVER, I expect her near me whenever the hell I desire. I do not expect to hear from her "I need some me time" I do expect her to have interests and definitely promote other interests besides me, but if I want her there at that moment, I expect her there. Ok and you obviously havent read all my posts in here. Im not saying that your slave shouldnt be there when you want, what im saying is that giving up all your hobbies and outside interests in my opinion is unhealthy. I know exactly what my dominant wants and i give him it too. In return he gives me me time, it fits and works for us. What works for others is all good too. To stop being me and just become an 'us' is not for me and i dont understand it. Thats what this thread is about, trying to understand those who feel opposite to me. I HAVE read all your posts in here, and I am not disagreeing with you on the need fore seperate interests. "I also truly meant the I was not trying to be rude" remark, although apparently you seem not to believe it. The question I am posing is because of how adamant you are of the abundance of time you need for yourself. There is nothing wrong needing time. My question is, and is only theoretical since I understand you are unowned, but when in a power dynamic, are you going to be the one that decides how much time you are going to spend with "you" time, or is the dominant?
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Anyone can overpower; not many can INSPIRE..... This is only MY opinion. If it's not yours, let's agree in advance to agree to disagree, OR, you can just get the fuck over what I had to say:)
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