daddysprop247
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Joined: 6/24/2005 From: DC Metro area Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: puella I do not want to derail your post or make you feel like I am personally picking on you daddysprop, but I think that 'being non-orgasmic' might well bear some looking into. As a woman who no longer has a sexual response, I am not trying to poke a stick at you. But I do believe that it is an indication of a physical or emotional disconnect somewhere. Though certainly not mandatory for one's livlihood, orgasm is a response naturally built into every person.. unless something has happened in injurioulsy or developmentally to cut that response off. Are there Dominants who do not care if you have an orgasm...absolutely...I think though, that on some level, the reasons for not 'caring' about that might be just as worthy of scrutiny as the issue of not being able to orgasm. hi puella, thanks for sharing some of your views. first off, i wanted to clarify that i am not 100% nonorgasmic...i'm physically capable of it, it's happened in my lifetime, but as an adult it's been an extremely rare occurence (i think the last time was 2 or 3 yrs ago? something like that). so i don't believe i have any physical issue that prevents orgasm, i think it's a combination of factors, mostly the fact that it's not something i desire, and also that i'm rarely self-focused enough to go there. and as it's not something that my Master requires for his pleasure, it's just no need for it to be part of my life. but i'm curious about the last bit of your response, regarding Dominants who don't care about such things...why do you view that as some sort of potential issue? and for that matter, why would a submissive being totally nonorgasmic even be an issue, if she were fortunate enough to find a Master who didn't care?
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