TigerNINTails
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In order to answer this form and not everyone, I'd have to say that there are times when everyone takes a more submissive, or bottom role, but as for myself, growing up in an environment that I did, I was most definitely more of a submissive personality starting out. However, as I grew up into my teens (probably about the time I started Topping my girlfriend at the age of 12) was when I discovered that tying up women and sexually tormenting them, or tickling them or otherwise controlling them in some fashion was what I wanted over all. So I guess, in my head, initially, I started out "submissive", but now have hardly any submissive thread whatsoever. I still bottom on occasion, but for me, that's a learning, humbling and balancing situation. I find that to bottom puts me in line with the same thought processes that go through the heads of submissives while I'm working them, so I understand what effect something is going to have on a more intuitive level. While I have this bent in me (to bottom), when I do it, I tend to take upon a "servant" or "slave" role, and I don't really submit... It's more of a "If I'm going to serve someone, I'm going to treat it like "duty", but they can't have my submission. It's a forced need I have, I guess. In any case, yes. I started out submissive, and bouncing between submissive and dominant for a while in my teens, but now am almost an exclusive top/switch with dominant tendencies, and really no submissive tendencies. I hope that makes sense. In any case, there ya go. Peace. Tora Kuo
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