slaverosebeauty
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Joined: 12/12/2004 From: Cali Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: akbarbarian Does it seem very dissimilar, or unreasonable to ask that a slave align her attitude with that of her Master? First off, if you read any number of my posts you will see I am VERY opinionated, and very strong willed, so being a slave can and being opinionated is very possible {looks around, I see a few of my fellow 'opinionated' friends who are bottom-types}. Joining an M/s relationship or changing into an M/s relationship from a vanilla or otherwise, does NOT mean that you change who you are inside. It does mean that changes happen. Being respectfull is a BIG one; that should have been there in the first place though. My attitude is not 100% aligned with MJ, at times we are not even close, more often than not since we have decided to work on things and to make this a strong and healthy relationship, we try to find a middle ground, or agree to disagree. I will admit, I will TRY to align myself with MJ, even if I may not fully agree, I tell Him so, yet, I do it in as respectfull a manner as I can; at times its difficult, but I do try. Like your slave I am VERY passionate about some things and MJ about others, luckaly for us, we have some shared passions that make our relationship stronger. If their is somrthing that MJ likes an I am not to keen on, I do tell Him, respectfully, in the end He makes the right decision for us; and visa versa, their are a few things I enjoy that He does not or doesn't have the experience with; we handle it as a couple. Relationships ARE give and take. Sometime you take more and give less, other times, you give more and take less.
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