PairOfDimes
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Sure, punching is an acceptable form of play. It's not necessarily any more physically trying than flogging or caning. It's pleasurable for the same general reasons as flogging or caning--because people like giving or receiving intense sensation. It's pleasurable because it's intimate, skin-on-skin contact, like an OTK spanking. It's pleasurable (mostly for the bottom, for this one) because it's a relatively broad, yet deep stimulation--it's a fairly specific kind of stimulation, and one hard to replicate exactly with implements. Emotionally, it can be interesting as "thug play," or as resistance/takedown play, with overtones of roughness or brutality, but it doesn't need to be attached to such a roleplay theme. It's true that punching is emotionally more loaded, in general, than caning or flogging, but that's true of hand spanking or face slapping, or even impact with more common household implements like hairbrushes and belts. Sometimes, too, an activity is fun because it has emotional associations--tons of people like humiliation play. Also, I don't think punching is a particularly gendered kind of play. I'm a woman, and I punch women and men. I've seen men punch women, and men punch men. As for where you punch, you're right in identifying the abdomen as a somewhat risky place to punch. You can do it, especially with well-developed ab muscles, but it requires more precision and care. It's also a different, and often undesired kind of pain. Easier, and often more pleasant areas include the chest, the thighs, the buttocks, and the back. Kindly don't punch joints opposite to the way they flex (hyperextension)--that's where it gets quite risky. Because this thread will likely receive hits from people who want to try punching as play: I've got a background in fighting sports, and this helps me understand how to use my body in impact play. (And, for that matter, in pressure point play, and wrestling.) I think studying boxing or non-western martial arts helps one learn to use fighting techniques in BDSM play. It's hardly a requirement, but I imagine you'll be able to do it more effectively and more safely if you have some idea of technique. It also helps you develop more versatility; punching is just the tip of the body-impact iceberg. You can use your hands in many other ways, you can do shoulder checks, kick people, and use elbows and knees to good effect. It's great fun, and just as okay as hitting people with dead cows and varnished trees. In fact, it's probably safer, since most people have finer control over their own body parts than they have over implements held in the hand.
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