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Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 9:33:12 PM

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Hello.

I do hope that I am putting this in the right area…

Please let me preface this by saying this is not an ad for myself…my question is at the end.

I am feeling a bit muddled/ confused/ confuddled at the moment. I have been a member for a length of time, and have not found much of what I am seeking.

I am seeking a Dom in my age range.

I am 26, and I am primarily looking for someone within the age range of 24-40.

My question is….Where are all the 30 year olds?

I try not to judge based on age, but I have spoken with a few *young* Doms--and while they were fine…they were just not what I was looking for. On the flip side of the token I am often inundated with messages from the over 40 crowd, which I am happy to get, and chat with a bit, but I am not looking to start something with someone that far out of my age range.

This is not meant in anyway to disparage A/any that seek someone younger or older than themselves, on either side of the D/s dynamic…it’s just what I am seeking and feel comfortable with.

Now, I do realize that living in Florida is not the best place to meet the young and the restless…but some? Somewhere? This entire state can’t be retirees? (again...not that there is anything wrong with them...i am just not looking for that.)

So…again my questions:

( I am having a little trouble wording this correctly, so please bear with me…)

Why does it seem that CM and other sites have floods of people 18-23 and then 45-60?

What happened to the 30 somethings?

Thanks for any speculating…

~anne

RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 9:38:06 PM

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Well, Anne, I hope I can be a token of change for you. While I'm not 30, I'm on my way (28). This is my first day on the site however and my first realization that this life is for me (or really has always been me). Hopefully, more will follow.

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 9:38:17 PM

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Mostly, I'm betting all the 30-something doms are off with all the 18-something subs, having a grand ol time.

I'm 34, but I'm far too bitter and cynical and jaded for my age. ;)

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 9:41:47 PM

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I am 31, marrying my 21 yr old slave. S... yeah, off enjoying the youngins

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 9:45:18 PM

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DV...

Thank You for Your reply...i have read some of the threads about Your upcoming event and send happy wishes!

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 9:47:11 PM

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*smiles*

i am feeling a bit cynical and jaded now... and i don't like it!

Thank You for Your input...

~anne

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 9:48:22 PM

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Welcome and good luck!

~anne

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 9:50:25 PM

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Thanks Anne

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 9:51:29 PM

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I'm curious. Are you filling in your desired age range when you do a search?

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 9:53:32 PM

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marieToo...

i am. Recently i have expanded my search out of the state, but i think this is limiting as well? *sighs*

Many thanks for the suggestion, though...

~anne

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 9:54:02 PM

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30 years old here!

C~

P.S. - On a quick scan it looks like there's at least a TNG (BDSM groups for people between 18-35) group in Orlando that you may want to check out

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 9:55:16 PM

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marieToo...

i am. Recently i have expanded my search out of the state, but i think this is limiting as well? *sighs*

Many thanks for the suggestion, though...

~anne

Well, there are new users starting all the time, so at least there is a good influx of new people. Best of luck in your search. :)

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 10:01:21 PM

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I tell ya what when you find all those over 30 please let Me know it's driving Me nuts

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 10:12:32 PM

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30?? crap...im 38 in 5 days...guess im too old...and im a sub anyway...

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 10:25:17 PM

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It's been my experience that a lot of those 30 year olds have been hitting up the 40 year olds too. Just sayin...

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/5/2008 10:47:11 PM

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I'm in my 30s... Though I'm feeling more switchy lately. I'd have never thought it would be all that hard to find 30 somethings in FL.

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30?? crap...im 38 in 5 days...guess im too old...and im a sub anyway...

Wow, ftd, you totally do not even look 30 in you pic...

Happy B-day by the way!...

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/6/2008 12:10:42 AM

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Wildfleurs,

Thank You so much for Your help. i hate to be a bother, but would You let me know where to get that information? And...could You tell me what that is?

*smiles*

Thank You

~anne

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/6/2008 12:15:28 AM

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marieToo~

Thank you for your suggestions. i do not like reading threads where the op answers negatively to the options presented, and rereading what i wrote, that is how it came across?

Thank you very much for taking the time to answer with your thoughts.

i am looking every few days...hopefully it will happen!

~anne

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/6/2008 12:50:55 AM

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NazjamRa,

Are You having similar problems, then?

i have a theory that goes a little along this line. It is probably completely off base, but i am thinking that the younger crowd is here for fantasy material. The mid-twenties and the thirties are having their families, and the older crowd is divorcing and horny.

It isn't at all flattering to those that are NOT playing around, but with what i am getting...this is the theory i have developed...*sighs*

Thank You for letting me know that i am not the only one!

~anne

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RE: Where are all the 30 year olds? - 9/6/2008 1:50:09 AM

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Mostly, I'm betting all the 30-something doms are off with all the 18-something subs, having a grand ol time.

You bet your favorite Hurley T-Shirt, they are! =P

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