RedMagic1
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 As an aside, the post currently at the top of General, asking for advice about how best to do self-bondage to nipples, is exactly the kind of OP that needs to be encouraged and showcased. I don't know the answer, so I won't be posting there, but hopefully someone knowledgeable will. Also, it might help to have a "Forum Ranger" type position, someone whose job it is to engage in informed research if no one seems to know the answer to a question. Example: "I don't know the answer myself, but I did some internet searching, and here's a link to what seems as though it might be a reliable source." That will build a culture of helpfulness and question-answering, instead of a culture of fake-spotting and troll-be-goneing. Many years ago a poster, whose name I've forgotten, would post links to previous discussions on a topic. Some people got bent out of shape over it but it struck me as her trying to help the newbies out when they asked the same small group of questions as previous newbies. I think that while that can be useful, it doesn't address the need a lot of people have: connection. I agree. Just posting links, or, worse, posting links to Let Me Google That for You, isn't what I'm suggesting. I'm saying that most experienced kinksters have decent BS detectors about internet claims, so even if they don't know how to tie a shibari posture collar, they can skim a web page that claims to give the lowdown on shibari posture collars and say, "I don't know myself, but hey, you might want to read this," or, "Here's a site I found while searching. The instructions look good, but the history and philosophy provided by the site looks sketchy or wrong."
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