Bobkgin
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Joined: 7/28/2007 From: Kawarthas, Ontario, Canada Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin Context is important. The literal "no limits" on its own means just that. Every right she has she is surrendering, making clear her intention to never claim a right to anything. This is what baffles me about making such a claim. What if sub Jane Doe meets very compatible Dom John Doe. Everything is perfectly content and after years, Dom John Doe becomes more extreme surpassing the tolerance of sub Jane Doe and her initial needs and desires. sub Jane Doe, at this point, adores and love Domly Dom John Doe and wants more than anything to make it work but is miserable. Domly Dom John Doe thinks he knows best, but sub Jane doesnt think so at this point. Has sub Jan Doe given up any right to make assertions that may ultimately save the relationship? end question to Bobkgin Jane is in the position of either accepting John's decisions, or re-asserting her rights (which any LE officer will enforce for her if need be). Jane has come to realize her belief in "no limits" was in error. She does have limits, otherwise she would not be "miserable". Understand that no one can force another to live "without limits", that this is a voluntary suspension of rights agreed to by the slave. As long as she refuses to assert her rights, she is cooperating with their abridgement, which she is free to do (as boxers suspend certain rights in order to fight, etc). But she is also free in our society to reassert her rights whenever she wishes. In the above case, Jane can reassert her right to speak freely, explain the situation to John, and hope he is sympathetic. This assumes John has denied her the freedom to speak freely. If he has granted her the freedom to speak freely, she should exercise it. Or she can reassert her right to freedom, and leave. What she cannot do is force John to change. For the relationship to survive, John would have to agree to the changes.
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