LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: dink22
Okay, let's review.
Until today, this was the last thread I posted on:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_4171991/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4171991
And what do we have? The very first r esponse is condescending. And look at the responses the rest of the way down the page. Nothing but condescending remarks and insults. Under the circumstances, I showed admirable restraint. Evidently, these people thought it was okay for them to insult me for my opinion, but not the other way around.
Let's look at another thread:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_4168436/mpage_3/key_/tm.htm#4169847
Again, you'll see that I'M the one being condescended to and insulted. I do admit the remark about mod 21 was insulting on my part, but he/she closed down a thread that was still being discussed. Under the circumstances, most of my responses on that thread were VERY polite. Especially since their responses were largely not to what I said,
Sheesh.
All right, dude. Let's have a chat.
Do you know why I write in purple, dink? I kid you not, it comes in really handy in cases like this. See, I'm really good with remembering the written word, but if somebody pulls up an old thread that's kind of long, it helps Me to find My own stuff quicker.
No, I didn't read the old threads again. I did that on the first go round. I did catch that part from one thread about how you claim there aren't any het femdoms here. There wasn't any point in arguing with you about it. I'm about as 'het femdom' as you're going to get around these parts. There's not shit I can do to convince you of that, so really, what's the point?
In the post before this one on this thread, you did get a little closer to the truth about personal responsibility for your own Mod sponsored time out. Did you really think you were going to personally attack a Mod by calling her a pussy and not have repercussions from that? Not to mention that was over and above breaking forum rules for starting a topic back up after you had just gotten the same stuff pulled. You kind of did the equivalent of shitting on the cop's porch and then want to act like you don't have any responsibility when you get hauled in for indecent exposure because your ass was hanging out. If I would have been Mod21, I'd have put you on the bench, too.
Where you're going wrong at this point is thinking that posters believe that prior posting history isn't taken into account. As a friend of Mine used to say, your posting history doesn't start over with every thread. Neither of those threads was your "first" post in your history, so people remembered you from before.
Let Me share a little bit more with you. A couple of people have mentioned this already, so I suspect I'm not totally out of left field on this one. I've got a feeling that this thread was based, at least in part, on another thread. This one. http://www.collarchat.com/m_4419539/tm.htm Yeah, yeah, I'm sure the author will come along and say that it's not about Me but I was kind of thinking it had something to do with it. Was I condescending there? If I was, I actually don't give a shit. It was the truth as I see it and since I don't have to worry about a customer base for what I write, I'm going to give people My perspective from My point of view. People may not like what I have to say from time to time but I'm willing to own every word that I've ever put on CM or anywhere else.
And, yeah, I even admit that I'm an ass sometimes. Like the time I told the guy who lived in Florida (yes, Florida of all places) that if he didn't know where to buy a whip, in his own dang hometown that's got a pretty good kink community, that he sure as shit didn't need one for his date with a submissive that coming Friday night. I told the gal who "borrowed" a urethral sound from her friend, brought it home, never cleaned it, used it on her boyfriend, and AFTER THE FACT, came to the boards to ask if he needed to go to the doc for the infection she gave him, absolutely did tell her that she shouldn't be doing medical play on anyone until she learned a little bit about sterilizing equipment. I could give you hundreds of examples from My six years on the site, but I'll spare you.
Hey, I'll even admit that I'm not right all of the time and I've posted apologies on more than a few topics. Shit, I even used to think similarly to you and had to eat My hat on that one because I didn't have enough education on the subject. It's even tough on Me still when I see the eighteen year old 'princesses' who start accounts in the hopes of accomplishing wallet rape, but I bite My f*cking tongue because I've also seen the legitimacy in fin kink that I've watched with My own eyes and talked to the participants. That was growth for Me.
In fact, that would be the advice that I would give you. Do you have the opportunity to get out to your local community and talk to people who have finances as a part of their dynamic? That's everything from the M who controls the household expenses, to the guy who visits the pro domme, to the person who only feels good because he's paying the cam girl. If you meet these people and talk to these people, who knows? Maybe you'll see their side of it and it won't cost you a thing but your time and the entry fee at a community event.
Oh, and should you ever run into Me at some community event or another, you're going to find Me exactly the same way as I am here. Only then, it might just be the leather that's purple.
From My desk to yours,
Lady Pact
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