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SainAgain -> Long distance and punishment (9/23/2006 1:38:45 AM)
I'm just curious how many of the other Masters who are in a long distance relationship with Their sub deal with punishment in the event that Their slave/sub misbehaves. For Me, personally, I'm have issues with punishment for My sub... right now I'm in Korea and she is CONUS. If she messes up, I can't be there to discpline her properly, and I feel that merely saying "you messed up" is inadequet, as I find from experience that sometimes physical punishment teaches the best lessons. I do understand that the crime dictates the punishment, and there is a lot of grey area for interpration of how much to punish, but some advice on what other long distance Masters do when Their slave/sub does something wrong on somewhat of a scale (mild, medium, heavy punishment). Thanks.

Avrilkiller -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/23/2006 1:41:15 AM)
Oh, lord.....i am very, very frightened. i've been here a while, and read many, many different ideas. O.O meep i love you.

justheather -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/23/2006 7:35:56 AM)
http://www.collarchat.com/m_222290/mpage_1/key_drawer/tm.htm#222863 Maybe this will help.

perverseangelic -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/23/2006 12:41:02 PM)
Why is "you messed up" inadequit?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/23/2006 2:12:04 PM)
I agree- why is simply explaining what was messed up and how not to do it again inadequate? http://www.collarchat.com/m_555442/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#555476 How do you cope? http://www.collarchat.com/m_399208/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#399230 Long distance relationships...how do you all make them work and overcome the obstacles that arise? http://www.collarchat.com/m_358232/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#358330 When the Master is away http://www.collarchat.com/m_243191/mpage_2/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#243396 Online or Distance relationships http://www.collarchat.com/m_5502/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#207957 Long Distance Relationships http://www.collarchat.com/m_214831/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#214831 Long distance d/s http://www.collarchat.com/m_210165/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#210165 Pleasing my master long distance http://www.collarchat.com/m_131170/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#131170 In Between Visits http://www.collarchat.com/m_124826/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#124826 LDR and sickness or death http://www.collarchat.com/m_89834/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#89834 Long distance punishment ideas http://www.collarchat.com/m_22973/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#22973 Long Distance Relationship (2) http://www.collarchat.com/m_5502/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#5502 Long Distance Relationships (2) http://www.collarchat.com/m_3521/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#3521 Long Distance http://www.collarchat.com/m_272610/mpage_1/key_LDR/tm.htm#272610 LDR D/s ideas http://www.collarchat.com/m_108560/mpage_1/key_LDR/tm.htm#108560 Long Distance Relationships????

MagiksSlave -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/23/2006 9:05:12 PM)
should adults be punished?? Magik's slave

Owned1 -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/23/2006 9:34:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave should adults be punished?? Magik's slave ummmm perhaps you wandered into the wrong forums Magiksslave? For many a large portion of BDSM is about punishment and discipline. Last I checked to be on cm and the forums you needed to be an adult. Owned

MagiksSlave -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/23/2006 10:00:44 PM)
I know it is part of it for some people but at the same time there are many people who dont think adults should be punished for everyday things... anyway it was hypathetical devils advocate question anyway. Magik's slave

Cardius -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/24/2006 7:15:47 AM)
Here you go this can be very effective. Careful how you set up the parameters. It is a program made specifically for long distance. You will love it she will hate it. http://www.geocities.com/cedargmx/fow.htm

MagiksSlave -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/24/2006 7:31:27 AM)
Have you two ever met in real life?? beleave it or not it makes online easier if you have had some real life contact Magik's slave

Avrilkiller -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/24/2006 12:19:01 PM)
Lol, Magick, yes...W/we have. This relationship started completely vanilla and W/we built together to WIITWD now. He joined the military long after W/we were together. He is just stationed in another ountry right now. But fear not! W/we're getting married in two week, and i'm moving back to Korea with Him. w00t.

MagiksSlave -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/24/2006 12:22:43 PM)
awww well then it shouldnt be THAT hard dear and worst come to worst whatever punishment is needed can wait the mear 2 weeks!! Magik's slave

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/24/2006 12:41:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave awww well then it shouldnt be THAT hard dear and worst come to worst whatever punishment is needed can wait the mear 2 weeks!! Magik's slave LOL yes, it does seem an odd question to be asking NOW. About to get married and all he can think of is how to physically punish his fiance long distance? Oh and no, with adults there is no SHOULD or SHOULD NOT- it's whatever works in the relationship. There really are a large number of Ms relationships that DO NOT employ punishment within their dynamic.

Avrilkiller -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/24/2006 4:11:02 PM)
Right. Clearly, since He is curious, it's allll he can think of [8\|] lol....but W/we will be long distance again at some point, and it's just recently that W/we've talked more about this and intensified things a bit.

shadevarr -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/26/2006 6:52:17 PM)
LD punishments can be quite tricky, at least for me they are. I have used writing a book report on the story of O, self breast torture over webcam, forced masturbation without orgasm and if I am feeling cruel I just let them know that it will come when I see them again. In my experience, the anticipation of what I may or may not do is far worse than any actual thing that I can do remotely. Granted, that sets me up on a nice pedistal when I get back but I like having expectations to surpass.

Celeste43 -> RE: Long distance and punishment (9/27/2006 7:09:22 AM)
If his disappointment in me isn't enough of a punishment, then our relationship would have major problems.

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