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Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 7:33:47 PM

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i would like to undertand more about Age Play. The only times i hear about it being observed by others, it is always an arena that seems to allow poor behavior of the child.... a punishment scene if you will.

Are there non sexual. non punishment dynamics in Age Play?

Are there any poly houses with those living an Age Play dynamic?

Just curious...
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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 7:46:25 PM

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None of the age play, that i have ever done, has involved punishment. But then again, i'm a good boi. Mostly it involves colorin and makin smores......

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 7:53:37 PM

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Well, we are exploring the age play dynamic. None of it has ever concerned punishment, at all. More of what we plan is closer to being regressed. He is getting a stuffed rabbit to sleep with, will be learning to drink from a bottle (potentially) and things of that nature. More publically, he has to hold my hand if we are out in the street, and in stores he isnt alowed to wander away. There is always the threat that if he misbehaves, he'll be put in the shopping cart.
For us, this dynamic works wonderfully. While it might not be the constant interaction we have, it does seem to be becoming more and more prevalent (and I love it)
We are not poly, though the idea has been tossed around that at some later point in time, once our relationship is good and solid, that we might bring in a "Big Sister" for him. Not sure how that would work just yet, though, but its been pondered.
Hope that helps
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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 8:11:36 PM

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i guess i should first say that i personally hate that term ageplay, but it seems that is the acceptable term so it has to be used

But anyway, i can only speak for myself. In my D/g relationships, i had a Daddy and i was the lil girl. He made rules (pretty much like in any relationship) and if i disobeyed, spanking was the punishment. i am not a masochist....i hated the spankings...and they were only used for punishment. In other words, i never had an erotic spanking in those relationships.

All of our time together was actually spent as Daddy and lil girl. It really is a paternally based dynamic (think parent/child type of thing). This dynamic came first. The bdsm stuff we did in the bedroom (so to speak) was actually a different type of dynamic and was secondary to the nature of the D/g stuff. There i could be the 'lil slut' type of thing. That was a lot of fun too!

It's really a very interesting dynamic but as with most things, everyone does it differently. There are really several links to it on the net, which i unfortunately do not have on hand right now.

But to answer your questions....there is definitely a non-sexual, non punishment side involved in the entire dynamic (or can be, depending on those involved).

And although i really cannot speak for poly homes, i have heard other lil girls refer to having 'sisters'....who lived with them. Although i have never known them personally, and that was not the majority i communicated with, i would say they exist.

Maybe that helped

DG

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 8:17:25 PM

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Oh i did forget to mention. The age of the lil one is whatever feels comfortable to those involved. Some go more for the babies....some early teens....etc. i was a little older than what DV is trying now but what she says they do publicly, was expected of me as well.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 8:23:32 PM

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We arent even sure exactly what we will be trying or settling on. The problem with a long distance relationship is there is a lot of theory and fantasy before you actualy get to find out what will work fr you. Angel and I area Mommy/baby girl relatinship first and foremost. He is a genetic male, but being femenized and recently we decided to introduce the age aspect as well. The ACTUAL age of the people involved may or may not play into it. Angel is younger than I am, but I dont know how much that had to do with it. Often, though, those that want to be babyed do look for older partners (I am learning)

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 8:35:53 PM

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We arent even sure exactly what we will be trying or settling on. The problem with a long distance relationship is there is a lot of theory and fantasy before you actualy get to find out what will work fr you. Angel and I area Mommy/baby girl relatinship first and foremost. He is a genetic male, but being femenized and recently we decided to introduce the age aspect as well. The ACTUAL age of the people involved may or may not play into it. Angel is younger than I am, but I dont know how much that had to do with it. Often, though, those that want to be babyed do look for older partners (I am learning)

DV

The first Daddy Dom i was with had already experienced the dynamic (actually, he introduced me to it....i had never heard of it yet). There was a particular age he already knew he liked. The second one didn't have much experience so we did a little experimenting that way too. There was a certain age he also preferred but thought he might like to experiment with other ages as well, at some point later in the relationship (which never ended up reaching fruition).

And i tend to look for older partners (just helps me with the mindset). They were both in their late 50s at the time.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 8:54:24 PM

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My ageplay is never a excuse or reason to behave badly and get away w/ith it. Somethings might not be as harsh or put on hold while I am little, but as I am always behaved* so far* he's nto harsh at all.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 9:18:08 PM

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I've been a Daddy's Girl, and it didn't involve a whole lot of punishment, although sometimes I wished that he would have played up that dynamic instead of arguing with me. Mostly, it involved some coddling, assigning chores, one time (my absolute favorite) he actually bathed me while talking to me as his little girl.
I really enjoyed those experiences, and when it came time for bedroomy sorts of things, sometimes we would stay in our roles and ages, and other times were the "don't tell mommy" sorts of scenes, which appeal to some and are creepy to others. I, personally, had a rolicking good time with them.
Also, the little outfits were fun.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 9:22:18 PM

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I am thinking I might start taking notes *laugh*

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 9:27:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

My ageplay is never a excuse or reason to behave badly and get away w/ith it. Somethings might not be as harsh or put on hold while I am little, but as I am always behaved* so far* he's nto harsh at all.

Oh no.....mine either! If i thought that, the punishment would have been worse, i'm sure

DG

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 9:30:52 PM

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I've been a Daddy's Girl, and it didn't involve a whole lot of punishment, although sometimes I wished that he would have played up that dynamic instead of arguing with me.

Oh, there was never any arguing allowed. The first time it was 'watch your mouth young lady'. After that, there were no warnings. Admittedly, he was rather stern

DG

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 9:31:30 PM

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my lil one is 6 yrs old... but I dont have a daddy at this time and my owner is not into age play.. so she mostly stays put away.

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 9:33:00 PM

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His ageplay isnt an excuse for him to misbehave either. If anything, hes expected to be better behaved than normal, since he's being Mommy's little Angel. Aside from a fantasy about getting into my makeup and having to be bathed and punished for being naughty... its never come up

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 9:46:16 PM

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I, too, used to be annoyed by this seeming behavior. I wanted to be a good girl- so why were all these other "littles" making tantrums and given cute smiles by their guardians? I didn't feel comfortable with them at all.

Then I found a great group of littles who were all simply being happy as a little boy/girl. They weren't doing it so they'd have some excuse to be "bad and get away with it"- in fact bad boys and girls in that group were sent away for corner time or asked not to return, just as real children would.

Hope these help:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_580865/mpage_1/key_age%252Cplay/tm.htm#580890
Ms and age play

http://www.collarchat.com/m_546688/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#546972
Another daddy dom question

http://www.collarchat.com/m_541638/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#541832
How does a dom decide to be a daddy ?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_540044/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#540129
Daddy's Girl

http://www.collarchat.com/m_278285/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#278992
What exactly is a daddy dom?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_259176/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#259184
Are there any daddies here?

Daddy/Daughter Roleplay

Daddydoms and Babygirls

Daddy?

Daddy/little girl

Hiding Daddy's Belt

Daddy doms

Daddy's little girl

Daddy? (2)

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 9:52:50 PM

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my lil one is 6 yrs old... but I dont have a daddy at this time and my owner is not into age play.. so she mostly stays put away.

Is that kinda tough Red? i know for me, just talking about this stuff is bringing up some very fond memories

DG

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 9:58:41 PM

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Ok, now I have to ask. This is something I see so very often. I cant be the only Mommy here... but is that just not popular? Almost every reference made to age play is the Daddy/little girl dynamic. Am I just missing something, or have I fallen into a smaller niche that just doesnt tend to get represented on CM often?

DV

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 10:00:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire
Ok, now I have to ask. This is something I see so very often. I cant be the only Mommy here... but is that just not popular? Almost every reference made to age play is the Daddy/little girl dynamic. Am I just missing something, or have I fallen into a smaller niche that just doesnt tend to get represented on CM often?

DV

It's just not as common.

Collarme is predominantly hetero male dom/fem sub relationships. So the issues/dynamics that are present in those relationships are the ones most often highlighted.

But I've known some great mommy types and can myself be one at times :)

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 10:00:39 PM

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There is a difference between little brats and lil girls/boys (although they can be one in the same...depends on what the Daddy/Mommy lets them get away with). i was not allowed to be a brat (although i did push it a bit on the rare occasion...) But since brattiness just led to a spanking, that didn't happen very often. i knew better.

Oh, and let's not forget the dreaded lectures And don't even roll your eyes or cut them off to the side during the lecture!

DG

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RE: Age Play Dynamics - 11/5/2006 10:03:00 PM

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At least I am not the only one. I used to identify closer to the Daddy type, but obviosuly Angel prefers mommy. I am good with that *grin*
Its a great release, stresswise, for him, I am noticing. Sometimes I envy the ability to just forget about the world and play.

DV

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