Argentopal
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Joined: 12/12/2005 From: Central Texas / Hill Country Status: offline
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My husband-Master moved into a Daddy - little girl mode a little over a year ago. This was after 25 years of marriage and 9+ years of 24/7Ds. The article by Kendra expesses many of my feelings very weel, but for me there is something more I would like to share for your thought. It is trust. I used to say that as my Master's submissive I renewed my submissiveness every singel day; that I gave myself to him everyday and that made my submission good (for me) because I sort of renewed my feelings everyday. As our Ds grew and matured and we settled into a deeper. more comfortable, natural feeling Ds life our plans for the furture changed, our deep feelings changed. We still talked about our Ds a lot, discussion new feelings, new desires, new ideas (new to US). From one conversation came the idea of me calling him Daddy. I had thought about it befire buit never mentioned it because I did not want him to misunderstand and think I wanted him to "replace" my Daddy, whom I loved dearly. Again, more discussions and we both realized that 'Daddy- littlegirl' was a feeling we both had and wanted to recognize and nuture. All the feelings described in Kendra's article were there, but for me it involves something more. There is such a deep level of trust that it is difficult to fathom. I would have said before that I trusted him totally, but this is just so much more. When a child has a good father-daughter relationship the little girl does not wake up each day and say to herself ... "Do I trust my Daddy to love me today? Do I trust him to take the best care of me that he can? Do I trust hom to not harm me?" They do not need to ask these questions, they just KNOW, it is innate, it is always there. It is being so safe, so loved, so protected that there is never any question about it. It is comfort, security, love at the most base levels. For me, for us, our Daddy-little girl is about that trust. MsOpal
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