hisannabelle -> RE: slave or submissive? (3/25/2007 8:45:15 PM)
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ORIGINAL: countrygirl69 I am no expert but this is what I was told a slave gives his or her self completly no questions asked where as a sub can ask questions and have an opinion not that it will be acknowledged but she is free to question things like I said not claiming to be all knowing just repeating what was told to me personally, and i am not saying this is not true for some people, but for us, he encourages me to share my opinion and my thoughts. sometimes he has to beat me into it, even, because i am not that comfortable with sharing my thoughts on things and asking questions. for him, it's information gathering. my sharing an opinion that might differ from his doesn't mean i get my way, but it gives him a better informed position from which to make the decisions, if that makes any sense.
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