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Advice for a relative newbie? - 11/9/2006 1:26:48 PM

footservant1001

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Hi there,

i have recently made the acquaintance of a delightful dominant Woman. i have had limited (very set boundaries...) experience with 2 previous Mistress' and am looking to extend my submission and really start to grow.

i would appreciate any advice from subs/slaves alike with regards to their feelings in the beginning, potential difficulties and any useful information really.

i feel like i am at an important stage in my development and my Mistress felt it would be a good time for me to seek out other submissive with whom to share experiences.

Thanks :-p

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RE: Advice for a relative newbie? - 11/9/2006 1:30:27 PM

LuckyAlbatross

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My advice for Novice Female Submissives

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RE: Advice for a relative newbie? - 11/9/2006 3:25:46 PM

Celeste43

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I'm sure L.A.'s links cover it all. But basically most of our time together is vanilla. With that said, pay attention to the small stuff. Does she only drink one brand of tea? Make sure you always have extra in the cabinet and keep the sugar bowl filled. Learn how much sugar she likes and make her tea and bring it, don't wait to be asked. Try to think of things that will relax her and do them. Rub her feet, get her a glass of water, put some cheese and crackers out. The little things mean the most.

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